Need help

I really need everyone's opinion. (I hope this question is okay with the BGF rules)

I have this friend. She was one of my BFF. I don't know why, but now she acts all mean, and rude and stuff. She thinks if I hang out with one person, their my new BFF. But that isn't true, one day I just didn't sit with her a lunch and she goes crazy. I am getting very frustraed with her, I tired to talk to her at school and stuff, but she dosen't listen. She takes something that happened in 4th grade on me, I probably didn't even know her back then! She says it's all my fault, all I wanted was to intro. her to some friends and she gets all mad and stuff. She says she wants to be friends, but when i even try to do something with her, she always ignore me. I'm getting tired, she's always moody, rude, mean, saying stuff about me, never listenning to my side of the story and everything. I am about in tears with all of this, I'm just scared she might start a rumor or something to make me the bad person.

Am I just waiting my time with her? Should I just let her go and forget? Please answer the poll. I really need people's opinion, please give your honest opinion.


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that isn't much of a friend, but if you think that you should stay friends with her, you should.

Its your opinion, you do whatever your heart tells you to

I would say that you should tell her how you are feeling about this situation, and maybe you guys and talk about this

I think that maybe you guys still should be freinds. But, I think that you should confront her and tell her about how your feeling, and that you shouldn't be treated that way. If she understands, then shes a true friend, but if she gets mad at you, then she must have not been a good frien in the first place.

Also, Don't be worried if she starts a rumor about you. Just agnore her, even if it seems tough. your true friends will stick with you and will always be there for you, no matter what

hoped this helped!
Hailey

Thanks everyone for replying.

PS &hearts your avie Hailey

Yeah, you should talk to her

AmyJanuary12 wrote:Thanks everyone for replying.

PS &hearts your avie Hailey

thanks! :p

To me that does not sound like a friend, if she starts a rumor because your not her friend that is sort of like black mailing i think. But its however you feel about it and how your heart does. If you heart says no go with it.

if ur friend does start a rumor...then u should atleast talk to her saying taht that was very rude! like evryone else says...do wat ur heart tells u......but if u get nervous when shes there....i dont think you would want her start talking about u and how mean u r...so i hopw everyting works out!

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but if she was my friend, I'd probably leave her because she's not a true friend. Even if she says she is or whatever she wants to say. But I'm not you, and you aren't me, so you should do whatever your little 14 year old heart tells you to do (sorry, your just little to me). You should do what you also want to do. Don't ever do anything you don't want to do (unless your parents tell you to put away your clothes, don't say no, I'm not trying to teach you to say no to your chores, OK? LOL). When it comes to friendship situations, maybe I should say, do whatever you think is right. Don't do what's logical or what other's tell you to do (unless you think that is right for you). You should do what you think is right. I learned that from a movie a long time ago, but it's true, you should.

Sorry this is so long. I just love helping you guys.
-Chocolatelvr.

it sounds she is jelous for your new BFF. She kinda felt betray from you. It is NOT your fault though. Just give her a few days to let her calm down.

If she starts hurting using the bad rumor or something, that is it (to me).

Hope you have time to talk each other by now. Sometimes miscommunication leads a strange way.

amy im so sorry something like that happened to me too and now my riend and i are not friedns and i regret everything said so just try to say ok...cuz is the best thing you can do..and always try to be friends with her even if she is mad at you..ok

welll i think you should try to tay with her